GM- I never thought I would meet someone from pensacola!! (as you said on my thread) Usually people who are from here- stay here. My parents live up close to cantonement- and i went to Tate HS for a few years. I come back every summer with my kids. Being a military brat, we moved in and out of here a few times, but my dad retired here when I started college (in Jacksonville). It's kinda sad to see how some areas have been unable to recover from the hurricanes and the economy.... I'm glad I can remember it when there weren't so many vacant buildings.
I'm just tickled that a random stranger that I met on a divorce site (of all places!) is from this same town!!
M-31, H-31 T-9, M-7 S-6, s-20mth sep 8/1/11 ILYNILWY 11/29/11 Creating separation papers. Discover H has feelings for BFF, she does too 1/11/12 H moves out 1.20.12
Same here, Navy family. I went to Escambia High and college at FSU and USA over in Mobile. I started working with the park service twenty years ago out at fort pickens. Stationed up here in Vicksburg, MS now. Still close enough that I go home often to see my sis and friends.
of all places!
Me: 44 Bomb: 11/27/11 Divorced:6/12 Life goes on: 6/13
I guess I know of this inside. Unfortunately, I still have a hard time appreciating that I have not even scratched the surface on the requisite time for my W to heal or for my changes to become permanent.
I have given myself until June before I "move-on". In some respects I have already moved-on just so that I can keep my sanity. As always, thanks 25!
Me: 44 Bomb: 11/27/11 Divorced:6/12 Life goes on: 6/13
Wife just came over and picked-up the dogs. We had a polite interaction that was very cordial. I did not lose my sh!t for a change. Right before she left she asked about the D papers. I told her I don't want to talk about the papers right now, but I did take a look at them. I did not tell her about the L meeting. She said she wants it done so she can have closure. sigh...
I was happy upbeat and broke contact first. Still, she is still in major D mode.
Me: 44 Bomb: 11/27/11 Divorced:6/12 Life goes on: 6/13
Trying to stay positive and distracted. W still in a hurry to get those papers signed. Not sure if I should keep putting her off or just sign em so she does not think I am trying to control her. Who knows, maybe she needs the D if we are ever to have a R together?
Yesterday I made a real big point to stay positve in front of her and I listened closely when she was telling me about her trip. First time since the bomb that I have been "attractive" in front of her. Hopefully I have planted a seed - only time will tell.
In the meantime I have stopped dating (2 dates) and I'm now declining friends efforts to "set me up" with folks. As strange as it sounds I had to go on a date or two to fully appreciate that I still dig my W.
Me: 44 Bomb: 11/27/11 Divorced:6/12 Life goes on: 6/13
