Here's what I replied with just a few moments ago.......
"I understand you feel that way, and as I said in my previous message, I will talk with them. I know that we both love our kids so lets get back to them and focus our energies on them specifically. How can we get our kids back on track? I think its something we can and should do together. They need our help."
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.