Yes, I gave my wife the ultimatum that she needed to stop being friends with the neighbor she texted a lot over the summer.

It didn't go well at all. She told me she felt like I was the same old person trying to control her and now divorce is pretty certain.

Me: 43
W: 37
Together: 18
M: 15
D: 8 yrs old
ILYBNILWY: March 2011
She Filed for D: August 2011
She moved out: Sept 1, 2011
Reconciled: May 2012
Divorce Case dropped: July 2012