Ex, I understand your frustration and as I said in my previous message, I will talk to them. For now I think we need to focus our energies on the children and getting them back on track. I think it is something that we can and should do together. I need your help.....
See if you can approach it again from a neutral posture and continue to redirect your Ex back to the issue of the children. I think it is going to take several attempts before your Ex comes down from her perch to engage you in a healthy way.
Just remember to keep your cool, continue to validate and redirect back to the kids.
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It's easy to find our bottom, it is our top that requires cultivation.
Every rough spot adds to our emotional constitution. -Barney Fife
