purg -
thanks again for your support and kind words. It means a lot to me. Plus you know that you, BMom and I share a lot of similar issues right now and it is nice to see I am not alone. smile

Originally Posted By: purgatory

***because we all know that the WAS never responsible for their bad/angry/sad/irritated emotions- it's always the LBS fault***


This is particularly true in my sitch. Since I was very angry with my H, I know that I have no wiggle room on this issue.

I have to be absolutely perfect
a)to convince him that my changes are real and he can trust that I won't be angry and
b) because he will go there even when I am not angry to justify himself...


Me & H: 44
D7, D6, S3
Together: 20y, M: 17y
EA: 11/13/10, Sep: 12/23/10
EA becomes PA: Spring 2011
H filed for D: 09/06/12
D Negotiating began 2/15
OW seemingly gone on 3/15
Still negotiating D