I know in 2010 when my H had an EA with his coworker and I found out, I told him that I did not want him to communicate with her at all. He didn't like it because he felt that I was trying to control him and I think he resented me for that.
So this time, I did express how I felt about the OW (he did sleep with while we were separated). But this time I did not tell him not to communicate with her. I did not want him to feel like I am trying to control him. I am hoping it will pass if I don't make a big deal about it. He did tell me that he has kept it business with her. She would email him business stuff and slip personal stuff in there, but he only answered the business stuff. I have to trust he is telling me the truth. But only time will tell.
