Rick,

I am really happy for you for this turn of events. Like you said, it gives you some hope, and to me that conversation was good because she really told you some important things about where she is at this time.

Remember what she is saying to you - she doesn't want to make a mistake and she is trying not to make any rash decisions when it comes to your R. That is better than most WAS.

Yet, please in mind that she needs to go through her journey and get rid of her demons and that you have no way of knowing how long she needs to figure things out. So you might not "see" much progress yet.

But at least she is not giving up on your M.
Hang in there! You have been rock solid up until now and if you still want this, you can continue doing so. smile


Me & H: 44
D7, D6, S3
Together: 20y, M: 17y
EA: 11/13/10, Sep: 12/23/10
EA becomes PA: Spring 2011
H filed for D: 09/06/12
D Negotiating began 2/15
OW seemingly gone on 3/15
Still negotiating D