It's been a week since my last update.

Everything has been great so far. Knock on wood! LOL

I have just been myself, which he loves. I am asking him to help with little things around my place and he likes that. He said it makes him feel more like a man. Before, when I ask him to do something, he took his time and then I would end up doing it. I am asking him to take care of certain things, which he likes.

So far so good. Keep my fingers cross.

I wish he would go to IC. He won't. I feel like we need to get to the root of our problems, but he seems to want to forget about them. I told him that we needed to deal with them because I did not want this to happen again. I can't force him. I guess he will go when he is ready.

H: 49
W: 47
D: 6
M: 6 1/2 yrs
H: Bomb #1 6-2010
H: Bomb #2 7-2011
H: Separated: 7-11-11
Reconciling 2-2012
Separated: 1-31-15 (I asked him to move out)