All - thanks for the perspectives!
Glad I'm not the only one struggling...
Kim..Your X didn't go get what he "wanted" - if it's MLC then he went and got what he thought he "needed" Reread Hearts Blessings Stages of MLC. I did the other day and it reminded me a lot about what is truly going on!


M-48/XH-48 M=25/T=28 years
Ds-24,22/S-18
D - 3/11
A Day at a Time