Rickb - good luck to you. Its kind of sad to see how common these sitch's are for so many of us. I hope that as you take control of the things you can that you find a new source of strenth & love to carry you to something better than you imagined.
Like so much of this, the road is long so hang in there. You're not alone!
Me:45, W:45 S:16 D:13 M:22, T:25 Bomb: July 2010 Putting finances in order for "D" Continue to live in same home-separate rooms