I feel that I need to write W a letter explaining where I am at. Due to her actions we will never be a family again and we will never be friends again, if she keeps this up we won't even be civil. Thoughts
Go ahead and write it, but don't do it for the wrong reasons...
Write it, seal it up, and run it through the shredder...
This isn't about what she has or hasn't done. It is about what you can do or you cannot do now.
It is time to mourn the loss of your marriage. It is time to find yourself again.
You need to go through the 6 stages of grief. You need to feel it, every bit of it. You need to own those emotions so that you can become whole again. Not for her, not for the marriage, but for you, so that you have something in the future to give to your next relationship.
No person knows what the future holds. And if you did, can I get the lottery numbers from you ???
