Thanks guys. I agree with all of you and my thinking is clear - my kids' well-being and future comes first. I guess I was just hoping to hear that it won't get ugly... That's going to be tough.
Specially when he finds out that I actually put money I got from disability benefits in a separate account I opened for myself. He knew I got $ last summer, but knowing him, he probably forgot about it and will be livid when he finds out. He will feel so insulted that I didn't trust him. Specially when he finds out that I put it away in case I need to pay a lawyer ... I know I will need one when this all comes crashing down.
He has said all along that he wants mediation - he doesn't want to give "our children's money" to lawyers.
really?
i am in a lose-lose sitch... he wants my trust, but he is not acting in a trust-worthy manner. He wants an amicable resolution, but our interests seem to be conflicting.
Should I just tell him that I put it aside?
Ugh... i just hate this...
Me & H: 44 D7, D6, S3 Together: 20y, M: 17y EA: 11/13/10, Sep: 12/23/10 EA becomes PA: Spring 2011 H filed for D: 09/06/12 D Negotiating began 2/15 OW seemingly gone on 3/15 Still negotiating D
