Divorcebusting.com | Contact

Register Log In

Divorcebusting.com Forums Open Forums Piecing Our Marriage Back Together Again Now the work begins....

Print Thread

Re: Now the work begins.... Jack_Three_Beans #2221372 02/13/12 06:21 AM
Joined: Oct 2010 Posts: 1,050 California A angel61 Member
angel61 Member A Joined: Oct 2010 Posts: 1,050 California	It is hard how to act... you got so used to DBing that it gets hard to start being engaged again! A few words of advice: 1. Take it slow - baby steps, think before you act and speak, try to lose any anger and resentment. Don't expect your trust to come back either, but don't act upon any mistrust and hurtful memories... 2. Do not expect! It takes time to change, it takes time to put what has been learned into action 3. Do not overwhelm your H with too much, he is still processing 4. Be positive, concentrate on the good things, and be forgiving. Live from this day onward, as 25 usually says... Do post and tell us whats happening! Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18 Bomb: 6/26/10 EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ??? 11/5/11 Retrouvaille Finally piecing.... Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go

Entire Thread
Subject	Posted By	Posted
Now the work begins....	lifejustgothard2	02/10/12 10:11 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	Jack_Three_Beans	02/10/12 11:24 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	angel61	02/13/12 06:21 AM
Re: Now the work begins....	lifejustgothard2	02/16/12 02:14 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	lifejustgothard2	02/23/12 02:32 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	angel61	02/23/12 04:19 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	lifejustgothard2	02/25/12 12:16 AM
Re: Now the work begins....	lifejustgothard2	02/29/12 02:06 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	lifejustgothard2	03/02/12 09:58 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	Cyrena	03/02/12 10:32 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	lifejustgothard2	03/03/12 02:29 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	25yearsmlc	03/04/12 05:19 AM
Re: Now the work begins....	lifejustgothard2	03/08/12 10:53 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	lifejustgothard2	03/09/12 01:54 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	lifejustgothard2	03/14/12 03:00 AM
Re: Now the work begins....	hopingandpraying	03/16/12 11:02 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	lifejustgothard2	03/20/12 01:41 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	alone	03/21/12 11:04 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	lifejustgothard2	03/27/12 01:27 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	MrBond	03/27/12 09:38 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	lifejustgothard2	03/28/12 01:01 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	MrBond	03/28/12 08:16 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	angel61	03/29/12 12:09 AM
Re: Now the work begins....	lifejustgothard2	04/01/12 09:30 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	lifejustgothard2	04/03/12 02:05 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	scaredsilly	04/03/12 06:01 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	Cyrena	04/03/12 07:41 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	lifejustgothard2	04/04/12 01:00 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	Cyrena	04/04/12 07:23 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	MrBond	04/04/12 07:38 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	lifejustgothard2	04/05/12 01:31 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	lifejustgothard2	04/26/12 02:29 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	~ kd ~	04/26/12 03:59 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	lifejustgothard2	04/26/12 08:55 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	~ kd ~	04/26/12 09:05 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	lifejustgothard2	05/20/12 05:59 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	Hopeful321	05/21/12 02:15 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	lifejustgothard2	05/24/12 12:12 AM
Re: Now the work begins....	lifejustgothard2	06/17/12 05:37 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	25yearsmlc	06/17/12 10:23 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	lifejustgothard2	06/20/12 01:47 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	lifejustgothard2	08/05/12 07:42 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	Denver_2010	08/22/12 05:30 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	Starsky309	08/22/12 05:53 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	Denver_2010	08/22/12 05:59 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	lifejustgothard2	08/24/12 02:03 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	Denver_2010	08/24/12 07:44 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	lifejustgothard2	09/25/12 12:15 AM
Re: Now the work begins....	MrBond	09/25/12 12:20 AM
Re: Now the work begins....	lifejustgothard2	09/26/12 01:27 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	MrBond	09/26/12 07:27 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	Denver_2010	09/27/12 05:06 AM
Re: Now the work begins....	lifejustgothard2	12/19/12 11:30 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	LITB	12/21/12 06:50 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	TSquared2	12/21/12 10:25 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	Denver_2010	12/23/12 02:01 AM
Re: Now the work begins....	lifejustgothard2	02/21/13 04:54 AM
Re: Now the work begins....	25yearsmlc	02/21/13 05:04 AM
Re: Now the work begins....	25yearsmlc	02/21/13 05:04 AM
Re: Now the work begins....	25yearsmlc	02/21/13 05:07 AM
Re: Now the work begins....	lifejustgothard2	02/28/13 04:26 AM
Re: Now the work begins....	lifejustgothard2	03/01/13 03:31 AM
Re: Now the work begins....	lifejustgothard2	03/04/13 08:41 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	TSquared2	03/04/13 09:26 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	AnotherStander	03/06/13 02:32 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	lifejustgothard2	03/07/13 08:51 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	lifejustgothard2	03/19/13 06:24 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	TSquared2	03/19/13 07:49 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	lifejustgothard2	04/08/13 04:35 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	lifejustgothard2	04/19/13 01:15 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	lifejustgothard2	05/31/13 04:40 AM
Re: Now the work begins....	~ kd ~	06/20/13 04:04 AM
Re: Now the work begins....	lifejustgothard2	09/13/13 12:22 AM
Re: Now the work begins....	lifejustgothard2	09/15/13 01:32 AM
Re: Now the work begins....	AnotherStander	09/17/13 02:27 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	chasingpavements	09/23/13 06:52 PM
Re: Now the work begins....	25yearsmlc	03/03/12 04:08 AM

Moderated by Michele Weiner-Davis

Link Copied to Clipboard

Michele Weiner-Davis Training Corp. 1996-2025. All rights reserved.

Powered by UBB.threads™ PHP Forum Software 7.7.5