I do see that mentioning 'sharing' faults for the divorce will not change what she believes, and how it confirms her negative views of me. Sometimes I need reminding of that. Sometimes I might say things that will be interpreted by her in a way that I had no intention of conveying to her. I honestly have no anger or resentment, and I have no desire to keep score.
I do appreciate your input. It's been sound wisdom. Thank you.
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
