YES that is what I'm saying Antlers...if you want to OWN something
then just own it, and stop talking about what someone OTHER THAN YOU
is responsible for. That is not "owning" it, that's assessing blame, she gets some and you take some and we're left to guess who really wronged whom. That invites more comparison instead of just progress.
What you can't seem to wrap your brain around is that you are keeping score...it's like you want to take 51% or just half and that's not achievable or really justifiable....and it IS keeping score. Do you see that now?
You are not a mind reader and you don't know what it was or is in her heart.
All you KNOW is that YOU effed up. So own THAT & ONLY THAT...
lose the scorecard, please. YOU will benefit greatly.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
