Trying to figure out if it's a PA behavior poking out or if Im just too bored in my life and trying to over analyze.
Xh told me his schedule for the week and what days off he has. Normaly he always politely asks if it's ok if he can have the girls overnight at least one night on his days off. '
Today he says " I can take the girls Wednesday night if you want".
Like he was offering to babysit or something.
I passed the buck and told him I would leave it up to him, I didn't mind if they were with him or home this week.
See he always used to say " well we can do this, that, etc. if you want". Then sometimes whatever was offered I didn't want to do it. Then later down the road I was told I never want to do anything because that one time he offered to do it " If I want" and I said no.
Oh and the restaruant thing,,,that happened when we were dating! I chose the place to eat and he sulked because he really wanted to go elsewhere! I about died and came home and told my mom. Guess what she blurted out? Passive aggressive behavior! My mom was a psychiatric nurse. She was so awesome, I miss her so much. She passed away 7 years ago.
