When I was getting alot of spew at the beginning of the separation 9 months ago I had to put my foot down. I told him that he's hever spoken to me in that manner ever and that if he can't speak to me respectfully than not to speak to me at all. I can't tell you how many times he's quit talking to me since. So I think that's a clue on the spew I could've had! Of course it started up at Christmas again.
The behavior completely reminds me of a childs tantrum. Honestly it really is.
