Custody or shared custody of your son must be the priority now.
That means stability and less upheaval for him.
But keep on with your changes b/c when your w faces the concrete consequences and unintended results of her choices
she MAY look your way to check herself and ask if this is worth it.
make sure you are your best self when she looks your way. You have changed and things COULD be better and different, couldnt't they?
Regardless if you believe SHE has worked on herself (and God knows she thinks she has b/c she's in medical training
and doctors think their work AT WORK means they work hard in ALL areas of their life...and that's why some people find them to be the "working spoiled" b/c it's just not so...for every night of call they pull, their spouse is alone and parenting solely...so aren't they both working and sacrificing? Not to mention the child with one parent instead of 2..) You want her to have 2nd thoughts. It will help you with son and it may help your r with her...can't hurt.
no offense to the MDs out there.
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M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
