Yesterday morning I had my 5th DB Coach session with Laurie (LOVE HER!) I gave her the rundown of how my 180 has allowed for some major changes in both our behavior. However he continues to say he wants to move out of his moms and into an apt we own (I remodeled it for his brother a year ago, can you believe that!). She let me know that his actions are much stronger than his words. He has demonstrated that he wants to come back in many ways. For ex: willingness and committed to coparenting counseling (Laurie said it's actually more marriage counseling!), initiating family outings, he shares work and family related stories (emotional intimacy), listens to me and will ask me questions to spark more conversation!, etc.
Before DD he did NONE of this, and I need to recognize that my present moment is great. I have made changes that have improved my relationship with the people I love, not just him.
Today, I felt like I was walking taller, or was it the high heels
M 42 H 39 T10 (-2yrs separation) S8 D5 DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA) Reconciled 6/2013 Separation in works 1/2017
