you did send an olive branch and that was good. Just keep it ALL about them no matter how she tries to lure you into a fight or contest.
Turn it back around and say "I understand you feel that way. I also know we both love our children so let's get back to them..."
Don't say "BUT..." at all. Just that you get what she is saying (not that you agree but that you KNOW how SHE feels...
and then stay on topic, which is solely about the kids.
Ask for her opinion in specific ways-not so you are asking if you two can get along. That's a bit much for her now, Imo.
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