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Time for No Contact except for emergencies with your kids. And you can define emergency.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
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Absolutely! As for now I realize that this puzzle can no longer be put back together. The corner pieces are missing. And the boxtop with the picture. And the pieces are blank. I have to give up and mourn the death of our M.


Michael

Me:46 /W:37
M:13 /T:16
D's:19,18,17,6
S:10
W filed 8/15/11
Court 9/21/12

Conflict is inevitable. Combat is optional.
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(((( Mr.Mr.))))

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((((mrmr))))

Wish there was some magic words to make this easier to deal with.... I can't even imagine the emotional range you've gone trough these past few days.

Hang in there for your kids- they will need a calm and stable parent when this hits them.


M-31, H-31
T-9, M-7
S-6, s-20mth
sep 8/1/11
ILYNILWY 11/29/11
Creating separation papers.
Discover H has feelings for BFF, she does too 1/11/12
H moves out 1.20.12
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After I'm done mourning I plan on celebrating the resurrection of ME!!!:-)


Michael

Me:46 /W:37
M:13 /T:16
D's:19,18,17,6
S:10
W filed 8/15/11
Court 9/21/12

Conflict is inevitable. Combat is optional.
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Soo sorry Michael. Go out and have some fun!


Me: 44
Bomb: 11/27/11
Divorced:6/12
Life goes on: 6/13


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yes! celebrate you! that's a good plan.


Me:38.. H:33.
Two beautiful kids S:6 D:3
M:8.. together for 11.
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You still have your sense of humor! Love the puzzle analogy.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

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I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
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Every Sunday night and Tuesday night I have been putting the kids to bed at her apartment. I can't do that anymore, it's just not healthy for me to sit there, so last night I told her that i am going to be dropping them off on my way to work on the following mornings. She said no because she is afraid that it will mess up child support .....really? She is worried about that but not worried about how her actions are messing up me and the kids! I'm sorry but F her! I AM keeping my kids overnight on Sunday night and Tuesday night and she will have to deal with this!


Michael

Me:46 /W:37
M:13 /T:16
D's:19,18,17,6
S:10
W filed 8/15/11
Court 9/21/12

Conflict is inevitable. Combat is optional.
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I feel that I need to write W a letter explaining where I am at. Due to her actions we will never be a family again and we will never be friends again, if she keeps this up we won't even be civil. Thoughts


Michael

Me:46 /W:37
M:13 /T:16
D's:19,18,17,6
S:10
W filed 8/15/11
Court 9/21/12

Conflict is inevitable. Combat is optional.
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