I so feel for what you are going through. Your sitch reminded me of the time me and my ex went to a play. It was about infidelity. In the middle of the play he turned to me and said, "You know, I just don't really want to be sitting in this stupid play with someone I don't care about". What they say is so hurtful. I really don't think they know what they are doing. What you decide to do is such an individual decision. Only you know, pray about it and ask god for direction.....hugs
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11