Destiny, Where you admitted to the hospital for over night observation since you took a large number of pills and threatened to end your life?
Before you can fix your relationship w/your husband and the ongoing issues at work and w/your family, you need to take care of yourself first. Once you have resolved your issues and are stronger, you will then be able to tackle each situation, one-by-one, but not all of them at one time.
If you are planning to return to work tomorrow, please schedule an appointment w/your agency's EAP (Employee Assistance Program) office. What you discuss there is kept confidential and will provide you w/a safe place to go to vent about what is eating you alive. Also, as I suggested, contact the Labor Relations Office as well as the union concerning the practices that your supervisor used against you.
We are here for you, but we are not all professionals in all fields you need to seek the assistance of someone in our immediate area for support. Take care of yourself.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.