Destiny, Please feel free to call me any time. It's difficult to manage one problem area by yourself, but when you have a number of difficult issues swirling around you, it can become too much. It's important that you have a support system in place and I hope that you will feel comfortable in coming here and also picking up the phone and calling me.
You are a very bright young lady who is very sensitive. People tend to take advantage of sensitive people because they know that they are people pleasers and will jump through hoops to keep people happy and things rolling along. Destiny, today will be your first day of focusing on what Destiny wants and needs to take care of herself.
Please know that we are all here for you. You do not need to carry this burden all by yourself.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Destiny, you matter in this world. You matter to us. If I can help as well, let me know. Perhaps I can bring a fresh ear to the sitch?
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
Thank you all for your support. There are no words to descrbe what you did for me. "Hear my cry, O God; listen to my prayer. From the ends of the earth I call to you, I call as my heart grows faint; lead me to the rock that is higher than I. For you have been my refuge, a strong tower against the foe. I long to dwell in your tent forever and take refuge in the shelter of your wings.
OLD THREAD-http://tinyurl.com/y98nuty Me 44 H 51 T 15 yrs M 9+ yrs No Kids "You may be deceived if you trust too much, but you will live in torment unless you trust enough."
Dear Destiny, I am so glad that you came here, and these wonderful people heard your cry. I hope that you are feeling a little less bleak today. I suspect that we have all been in that dark place, and please know that I am praying for you.
As Snodderly said, you are clearly sensitive, and feel things deeply. Try and take care of you, and love yourself. We are all concerned about you. I am sure IB and Snodderly gave you amazing support, as they are wonderful women who know how hard this is.
Destiny, I am glad to see that you posted. If you ever need anything, you have my number...call me. We all have been done the road you are traveling and we are all here to assist you when you stumble.
First and foremost, take care of yourself.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Thank you for reaching out to us. WE CARE ABOUT YOU!
We are here for you. We heared you and we will help you. You can make this site your support system because we know how you feel. We have been in the black hole and making our way out.
You are an amazing, caring, wonderful person and a good friend to many here. Let us give you a hand in your time of needs. I'm here for you.
Destiny, Where you admitted to the hospital for over night observation since you took a large number of pills and threatened to end your life?
Before you can fix your relationship w/your husband and the ongoing issues at work and w/your family, you need to take care of yourself first. Once you have resolved your issues and are stronger, you will then be able to tackle each situation, one-by-one, but not all of them at one time.
If you are planning to return to work tomorrow, please schedule an appointment w/your agency's EAP (Employee Assistance Program) office. What you discuss there is kept confidential and will provide you w/a safe place to go to vent about what is eating you alive. Also, as I suggested, contact the Labor Relations Office as well as the union concerning the practices that your supervisor used against you.
We are here for you, but we are not all professionals in all fields you need to seek the assistance of someone in our immediate area for support. Take care of yourself.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
