I've been reading a lot of True Gritter's old posts and he has some thoughts on knowing when it's time. There is so much more to this DBing than just saving a marriage. I have changed so much in the way I look at the world, at myself, at my kids, my friends-everything has changed. And the biggest plus, I'm a happier person.
I wrote this before I read 25's post above. Great read and pretty much ecohoes my feelings.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss