KG, I just posted on your thread.

I've been reading a lot of True Gritter's old posts and he has some thoughts on knowing when it's time. There is so much more to this DBing than just saving a marriage. I have changed so much in the way I look at the world, at myself, at my kids, my friends-everything has changed. And the biggest plus, I'm a happier person.

I wrote this before I read 25's post above. Great read and pretty much ecohoes my feelings.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss