if this is his first real solo parenting (never mind OW help b/c he'll HAVE to be alone with them SOMETIMES now and that is new to him.
And it's not easy. So you say he looks tired and scruffy?
Well I'd connect the dots. NOT saying it means he'll be all into YOU & regret his choice, yet, but he IS facing some of the unintended consequences.
*He has to discover them on his own. Don't point them out.
he sure will have his eyes opened more about how hard and wearing it is when you are home all day & he's interacting with adults and when he comes home you've got 4 things stored up to tell him
but he wants to relax or rest or vent about work. Recipe for failure? Sometimes...
Leave him to these discoveries. Like how much easier things can be when you are there helping....HE may well improve as a father. That is NO SMALL FEAT..
((( )))
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016