So I guess I wasn't the only one who wanted to get out of the house. My DIL picked up the kids and as I was walking back in the house my H told me he was going out for the night. I asked him to clarify, and he ment overnight.

He said he didn't know where he was going, OW's or boat. He also said he was feeling terrible, the anxiety was giving him cheast pains. My level of detachment is such that I really have no sympathy. I refrained from saying anything rude.

I know he is confused, conflicted, blah, blah, blah. I also know everytime I believe him when he says we are working it out within a week he changes his mind.

Everyone here knows the drill.


Me 57 XH 58 Sons age 32 & 27 M:32
D final 9/12
Bought 10 Acres and Living the Dream!