I understand what you are saying. However, your X did ask for forgiveness, which is pretty impressive IMO.

I will not be surprised if your X does dump OW before wedding.

But as you know, in my case, X immediately replaced OW with New Woman. I think X could not be alone. But it is good that OW is gone.


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D