I have read your entire sitch with great interest. I in turn began a determined research mission on the MLC syndrome - to find that your story is exactly classic, even by the most sarcastic of websites, the fit is uncanny!
And the prognosis is the same across every board (medical, psychological, intellectual, philosophical, rational, irrational, psychic, side-kick, infidelity, jealousy, happy, sad, gay, not gay - dim, dark, gray, midnight, treatable, not treatable, BP, BPD, NPD, LSD, MLC, LBS, WAS, WAH, WAW, MD, MC, IC, PhD, IOU, IUD, STD, TRO. All you can hope for remission to last (one would have to seriously ask themselves after this question after such a coaster ride as yours).
But you have learned a great deal about yourself and your toleration level over this period. And you are now in a different place with a total re-grouping of your perception of your husband's hyjincts. You are surely better off, but you've been thru he--.
I commend you for your fortitude. It really would not have mattered how you would have handled things any differently or better. You have done an admirable DB job under these tough circumstances, and you are to be admired. Seriously, with what you have been faced, and the pressure you have been under, I am surprised you have not had a nervous breakdown. Furthermore, many people commit crimes for much less than what has been done upon you.
Bravo.
I would be proud and honored if you, or any of your admirers, would have a look at my sorry sitch.. With best regards, Yas
Married 27 Years Together 32 Years 4th Year of Separation; D-Day 1 = 9/08, D-Day 2 = 12/08 Divorce Final Sept. 17, 2012