Wendy, I could take one of those leis and wrap it around his neck until his eyes bugged out. The man is absolutely an insensitive jerk. Talk about the wrong head speaking and thinking these days.
Now, I want you to explain to me just how he is going to support the ow is she is so darn weak from her weight loss. Is he planning to carry her on his back from start to finish of the race? If she's that weak, she shouldn't be even thinking of running.
Okay, what will be his excuse after 19 days? He needs to go to whether she's livin to help her set up and play house?
Wendy, find a pillow and beat the stuffings out of it. Sitting quietly doesn't mean that you can't scream, throw things or beat the crap out of stuff. It means to sit quietly, listen and observe when your spouse is around.
He's one messed up dude and it's going to take more than 19 days to get his head on straight.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.