and I have to let her go because of my past, and I have to respect myself enough to NOT be with someone who doesn't want to be with me.
How about we turn that statment around and say you respect the fact that she doesn't want to be with you right now.
You are not the victim here. Only if you choose to be.
It is not the fact that you failed. It is how you decide to recover from that failure.
So I see you walking out on the discussion because that stings for you. The complaints from your W and her family about you or how they thought you should not have gotten married sting.
WHY?
Originally Posted By: jlove
I told W she should leave and I couldn't fake this anymore and be with someone who no longer loves me or wants to be with me. She said she understood but I was playing emotional war again her and for many reasons she can't and didn't want to leave right now.
She is right you are playing war. You are not getting and/or hearing what you want so you are thrwing a tantrum.
More of the same old jlove?
I have to go J more later....
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am
