I would start throwing things, bury your head in a pillow and scream!!!!
Spit nails alright, and do it aiming at him!
I can't believe these people were once normal human beings.
Seriously you can't make this stuff up.
I am so sorry...I can tell you what I would've done at that point. Kicked him out! Infact I did that to XH 6 years ago when I got bomb #1. He came back a week later.
I know we're supposed to be supportive and listen to the MLCer, but what the hell is it costing us? I don't buy that stuff. For crying out loud, it's like they have no inhibitions when it comes to verbalizing their feelings but absolutely no consideration about other's feelings.