She drank mai tais and played on her phone while we ate. She did tell me that if there was something she wished she could have gotten out of her biological father, it would have been the time he'd spent drinking (meaning time with him while not drinking). I wasn't sure what to say to that. I think I validated, but I was pretty wrapped up in my own thoughts, too.
Umm....you told her you started AA, and she wanted to go out and drink Mai Tais in front of you? You don't think this is odd? Like you telling your spouse you've started a diet for your heart disease, and them saying "let's go to the Cheesecake Factory for dinner"???
Do you think she has a drinking problem too? Or is she just a saboteur?