I am sorry you find yourself here. My H walked out on me and wanted a divorce. I did the same thing you did. I talked to a lawyer and started the process. But after I left the lawyers office, I said to myself, I do not want a divorce and this is what he wants me to do. He wanted me to file because he did not have the balls to do it himself.

I gave him his space and only talked to him if it was concerning our D.

7 months later, we are working on reconciling our marriage. So far, so good.

Hang in there and don't give up hope.


H: 49
W: 47
D: 6
M: 6 1/2 yrs
H: Bomb #1 6-2010
H: Bomb #2 7-2011
H: Separated: 7-11-11
Reconciling 2-2012
Separated: 1-31-15 (I asked him to move out)