I think in my case compassion confuses me or makes it difficult.

This is because I see someone that I care about having a true propblem. They're really in pain, they're perception of reality is so skewed. They see the people that really love them as enemies. They can't see the love and compassion infront of them. They literally walk away from something so special and will never find until they're able to bring that wall down. That wall more than likely will never come down.

I can't fix this, it is completely beyond my control. Control isn't the issue here for me. Its me seeing things through rose colored glasses I guess. Grasping the concept that people throw away such wonderful people due to their own issues just makes me ill.


M=42 XH=44
M=18 T=21
D14 D11
Divorced 4/2012
XH marries OW 6/2014.