Trusting, One of the things I find myself wondering about is whether, after years and kids, etc., one is truly separated. It seems that they continue to watch what we are doing and want to know.
I suspect that the engagement may have been some serious pressure on her part. It's pretty unusual for them to marry the OW but I suppose it can happen. Glad that it doesn't feel too hurtful to you.
But I am happier for you that you can have R w/your former SIL. This will undoubtedly be disturbing to X and OW--not that this is why you'd do it, of course.
I have a strange feeling that your X's MLC story may be reaching its end as reality has caught up.
M: 16 years Bomb 4/07 OW 20s long gone Divorced 11/09 I remarried New Guy Cooperative r w/X regarding D