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Wow my typing has been terrible, sorry.
I don't know labug, I would think not being as I stated earlier Wisconsin will not let us get a D now, and she says she wants to get a D.

My first thought is that she is lying. But the why eludes me.
I have recently started to set boundaries that W does not want to respect. Might have to do with that.


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My question had more to do with the timing if she had her period last week. Without getting too much into reproductive biology here, that does not compute.

Either your info is wrong or she is bluffing, but why unless she thinks you're dragging your feet on the divorce.

Very weird.


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"Home Pregnancy Tests

HCG pregnancy tests or home pregnancy tests determine pregnancy through the detection of the hormone Human Chorionic Gonadotropin (hCG) in a woman’s urine. Doctors recommend that you wait until you have missed a period to take a home pregnancy test. If you can not wait that long to find out and you know the day you may have conceived, then the earliest you can take a test would be 14 days from possible conception. Home tests are usually 97% accurate when all instructions are followed correctly and the results are read on time. Some kits come with two tests so that in case you have made a mistake, you may take the home pregnancy tests gain. "

Just googled this above, something DOES not compute.

She is telling you she had sex obviously, but she can not know that she is pregnant according to what I am reading.


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It does seem "off". Even when I was trying to get pregnant I wouldn't take a pregnancy test until I had missed a period. Ok... That was odd to say.

Do you actually know for sure that wife had her period last week? Did she tell your Ds or did you?


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She told me she was pregnant crabby because it was that time....that was last Sunday. Also I put the kids to bed at her apartment on Sunday night and the bathroom garbage was full of evidence of this fact.
Wasn't snooping mind you, just using the bathroom and it was hard to miss.
I am not dragging my feet, all of my paperwork is in. She haz not turned hers in even though it was due January 29th.
I don't know what is going on, but something smells fishy.


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Oh, and by the way .... it hurts ......a lot!


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I can only imagine.

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On a side note B.F. where in Wisconsin does the MIL live?


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mr - i'm not quite sure where in WI MIL has moved to. i think she said the dells is within driving distance? i know she is not in the city. hmmmm.. i will have to ask her. so bad. she met someone online after her divorce. they have been together about 4-5 yrs now? wow! he's a great guy. really really nice.


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So I guess I'm back to this not sleeping thing......yay!!

W has been texting me all night about trivial crap, I have not responded. Does she except that things are normal? Does she really have no clue that things have changed forever?


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