SIAS - I've had similar concerns lingering in the back of my mind. But, since I am separated from my W, the likelihood that she is reading this AND can figure out who among the hundreds of forum members is me, well......good luck!
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It's easy to find our bottom, it is our top that requires cultivation.
Every rough spot adds to our emotional constitution. -Barney Fife