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Re: MC says to call it quits Accuray #2220909 02/11/12 10:17 AM
Joined: Nov 2009 Posts: 13,555 Likes: 90 NY C Cadet Member
Cadet Member C Joined: Nov 2009 Posts: 13,555 Likes: 90 NY	Originally Posted By: Accuray If you have time read what I wrote this afternoon on Crazyville's thread on Newcomers. You may have read this before but LD/HD is a form of pursuit and distance, which is also similar to what MWD writes about too in DB/DR. Pursuit and Distance http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=714209 The basics behind this article are in a great relationship book called THE SOLO PARTNER, the last chapter provides the meat and potatoes of pursuit and distance. I think you see this in what you describe about your parents. All this is fine however my belief is that you did not break your marriage so you will not be able to FIX it either. As far as INVESTing in your job/marriage. Invest in YOU, then you are guaranteed to be happy. You can CONTROL you and everything YOU do. You can not CONTROL your W, so don't! Let me restate, I am against DIVORCE. But you must LET YOUR WIFE GO. This is counterintuitive, but that is what DB is all about. I am not sure STAY and SUFFER is a great choice but why must you leave to be happy. What about stay and THRIVE? Do you need her to make you HAPPY? Me-70, D37,S36

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MC says to call it quits	Accuray	02/08/12 10:45 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Cadet	02/09/12 05:49 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Accuray	02/09/12 05:59 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Cadet	02/09/12 07:27 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	TeaEarlGreyHot	02/09/12 07:42 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Cadet	02/09/12 07:55 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Accuray	02/09/12 09:54 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	TeaEarlGreyHot	02/10/12 05:00 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Accuray	02/10/12 05:19 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Cadet	02/10/12 06:57 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Accuray	02/10/12 08:48 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	greenblue90	02/11/12 07:14 AM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Cadet	02/11/12 10:17 AM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Accuray	02/11/12 01:12 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Cadet	02/11/12 02:16 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Accuray	02/11/12 09:24 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Cadet	02/12/12 08:35 AM
Re: MC says to call it quits	greenblue90	02/12/12 01:30 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Accuray	02/12/12 06:04 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Accuray	02/13/12 12:48 AM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Accuray	02/13/12 01:38 AM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Cadet	02/13/12 10:14 AM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Accuray	02/13/12 12:52 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Accuray	02/13/12 12:53 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Cadet	02/13/12 02:03 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Accuray	02/13/12 03:59 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Cadet	02/13/12 05:11 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Accuray	02/13/12 05:58 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Cadet	02/13/12 09:26 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Accuray	02/14/12 05:37 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	TeaEarlGreyHot	02/14/12 08:23 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Accuray	02/14/12 09:25 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	TeaEarlGreyHot	02/16/12 07:12 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Accuray	02/24/12 01:54 AM
Re: MC says to call it quits	adinva	02/27/12 02:45 AM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Accuray	02/27/12 02:59 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	greenblue90	02/28/12 01:18 AM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Accuray	02/28/12 01:26 AM
Re: MC says to call it quits	greenblue90	02/28/12 01:49 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Accuray	02/29/12 01:44 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	greenblue90	02/29/12 03:08 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Accuray	02/29/12 05:36 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Crazyville	02/29/12 08:41 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Accuray	02/29/12 09:22 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Accuray	02/29/12 09:25 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Crazyville	02/29/12 09:39 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Accuray	02/29/12 09:58 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Accuray	02/29/12 09:59 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Crazyville	02/29/12 10:10 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Accuray	02/29/12 11:00 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	adinva	03/01/12 04:21 AM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Crazyville	03/01/12 05:03 AM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Accuray	03/01/12 03:23 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	adinva	03/01/12 03:40 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Crazyville	03/01/12 11:37 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Accuray	03/02/12 02:24 AM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Accuray	03/02/12 03:00 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Cadet	03/02/12 04:16 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Accuray	03/02/12 07:31 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Crazyville	03/03/12 03:11 AM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Accuray	03/03/12 03:51 AM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Accuray	03/04/12 10:55 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	greenblue90	03/05/12 10:45 AM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Accuray	03/05/12 11:54 AM
Re: MC says to call it quits	greenblue90	03/05/12 02:24 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Accuray	03/05/12 03:48 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	greenblue90	03/05/12 10:36 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Accuray	03/05/12 11:01 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	oldtimer	03/05/12 11:14 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Accuray	03/06/12 01:08 AM
Re: MC says to call it quits	greenblue90	03/06/12 01:12 AM
Re: MC says to call it quits	greenblue90	03/06/12 02:01 AM
Re: MC says to call it quits	oldtimer	03/06/12 02:54 AM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Crazyville	03/07/12 05:53 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Accuray	03/07/12 07:32 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Crazyville	03/07/12 08:37 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Accuray	03/07/12 09:21 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Crazyville	03/07/12 09:48 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Accuray	03/07/12 09:58 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Crazyville	03/07/12 10:33 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Accuray	03/07/12 10:41 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Accuray	03/12/12 06:19 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	greenblue90	03/13/12 08:55 AM
Re: MC says to call it quits	greenblue90	03/13/12 09:02 AM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Accuray	03/13/12 11:20 AM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Crazyville	03/13/12 05:53 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Accuray	03/13/12 06:26 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	oldtimer	03/13/12 06:30 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	oldtimer	03/13/12 06:31 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Accuray	03/13/12 08:44 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Accuray	03/13/12 08:46 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	TeaEarlGreyHot	03/13/12 10:38 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Crazyville	03/14/12 12:07 AM
Re: MC says to call it quits	greenblue90	03/14/12 02:00 AM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Crazyville	03/14/12 02:07 AM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Accuray	03/14/12 02:19 AM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Crazyville	03/14/12 02:40 AM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Accuray	03/14/12 03:31 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Cadet	03/14/12 03:36 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Accuray	03/14/12 03:53 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Cadet	03/14/12 04:48 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	oldtimer	03/14/12 05:25 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Accuray	03/14/12 09:39 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Accuray	03/15/12 03:44 AM
Re: MC says to call it quits	mncwng	03/15/12 04:25 AM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Crazyville	03/15/12 04:40 AM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Accuray	03/16/12 03:26 AM
Re: MC says to call it quits	oldtimer	03/16/12 04:16 AM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Accuray	03/16/12 04:55 AM
Re: MC says to call it quits	oldtimer	03/16/12 05:17 AM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Accuray	03/16/12 05:40 AM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Cadet	03/16/12 10:03 AM
Re: MC says to call it quits	TeaEarlGreyHot	03/16/12 11:21 AM
Re: MC says to call it quits	oldtimer	03/16/12 05:11 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Walking	03/16/12 10:38 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Accuray	03/17/12 02:07 AM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Accuray	03/20/12 09:07 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	oldtimer	03/20/12 11:07 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	oldtimer	03/20/12 11:12 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	oldtimer	03/20/12 11:14 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Accuray	03/21/12 04:02 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Crazyville	03/22/12 07:19 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Accuray	03/22/12 09:12 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Accuray	03/17/12 02:24 AM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Accuray	03/17/12 02:28 AM
Re: MC says to call it quits	oldtimer	03/20/12 07:58 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Accuray	03/01/12 03:17 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Cadet	02/28/12 12:24 PM
Re: MC says to call it quits	TeaEarlGreyHot	02/29/12 03:20 AM
Re: MC says to call it quits	Accuray	02/29/12 03:02 PM

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