I hate to say it, but perhaps you're just not compatible, at least sexually.
Rationally, it would be hard to argue with you, given our track record. A faith perspective, would argue that we can aspire to being sexually compatible, in spite of our history. I'll keep reading Passionate Marriage, out of faith.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."