Oh BM,
This is just the same as my sitch!

My H has been here twice in the last two weeks - on his own while I have been at work and the kids at school, so he could have taken whatever he wanted - but nothing is touched.

And yes, the hoodies and T shirts (all emblazoned with logos) that my H has bought for himself recently would be great for a 14yo boy, but look decidedly odd (to my mind, at least) on a 42yo businessman.

I'm thinking - since I wrote the above - that my H doesn't want his clothes because mostly, they were bought by me. He's leaving them behind just like he left me.

It is a bit hard not to interpret it as some sign of hope, though. When I went to his wardrobe to check whether he'd taken anything, it all looked exactly as though he was still living here.....

Would have pushed me to tears a few months back to see all his clothes hanging there just as if he was about to walk back into the bedroom and put something on.

Now, it just makes me think WTF?