Yes, and really, they do. Those loving feelings may last a while, but commitment has to kick in somewhere. It doesn't sound like he has any. Times will get tough eventually, and it's really hit you guys. And the antidepressants mess with everything, especially libido. You've been amazingly committed. Really, you're treating this like a marriage and he isn't at all.
I'm so sorry Michelle. What I meant by "in his mind he's being fair" is he knows he doesn't feel the same way about you as you feel about him. And he may even feel guilty for that. But until he realizes that it's not all about feelings, and that through work they can come back like we learn here in DB, there's nothing you can do to change his mind. He's really being a big baby and it's ticking all of your DB friends off
Me: 30 W: 28 T 8, M 6 S: 7-27-2007 W filed (again) 3-2011 Served 8-2011 Responded, now dark "I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK
