Alright, somebody remind me why I am doing this again? I'm in a pretty good place right now. Sure, I still miss the W as a spouse and friend but I'm not chasing these days. I read the archives and sucesss stories and they help. I read sooo many threads here that mirror my own sitch. Yet, I still feel that its not going to happen for me. Please understand, I'm liking me again - first time in many years. My self confidence improves everyday with that one exception. For those of you that toughed it out and reconciled (bustorama), did you ever have periods when friends, therapists, and family ALL said to "just D her and get it over with. Afterall, you are an attractive and witty guy you will meet somebody before you know it". I mean WTF? I know they are trying to be supportive, but really? I love that girl. There simply is no replacement for her. Yeah, I know that I can live without her and I will indeed be happy again, but I honestly dig this girl!
I don't really know what I'm asking here... Tough day at work that was finished off with a colleague telling me - "Dude she is gone, I promise".
Me: 44 Bomb: 11/27/11 Divorced:6/12 Life goes on: 6/13
