I'm new to the forum, and I'm learning a great deal every time I get on here. I don't know the entire history here, buy I'm curious as to why OM wants to talk. Personally, I wouldn't want any part of talking to OM, especially considering the importance that this weekend holds for you. Talking to W about whatever she wants to talk about is probably pretty important, but I would insist on leaving OM out of it. Honestly though, if OM is telling you that W is available at whatever time and he wants to talk too, it almost sounds as though he is assuming a position where he is making some decisions for W. I am hoping for the best for you. From what I've read, you're being a great dad and working hard on yourself. Be strong and hang in there!
M-36. W-27 S-2 W moved out, filed for D after my A. I'm DBing the best I can! Learning every day, praying and hoping.