You are handling the situation well and honoring how you want to move forward with your life. There is a tendency to 2nd guess, but trust your instincts.
At the same time, it is HARD detaching from our past R. I'm not sure if you are like me, but any interaction from my WAW causes such an avalanche of emotions. The emotional onslaught increases in intensity based on the interaction, with directly speaking to her the "worse". It's been a year since the filing and I'm not sure if this is part of the "normal" detachment process. I sense you have a similar experience.
Again, hang in there and believe and trust yourself. You ARE handling this the right way!
_______________________ M: 47; W: 39 M: 4.5 yrs; T: 18 years No children Separated: 01/19/11 Wife Served Papers: 02/1/11 Wife moved: 03/05/11 Responded: 04/14/11