I always had warm cookies and milk delivered to my H's work for V day... Last year I debated, but since he complained that I never did anything nice for him, I decided to go ahead and do it as part of my 180s.
He brought me and each of our girls a bouquet of flowers. (I later found out that he bought them on the way here because his sister called him and made him feel guilty.)
I also later found out about OW and how he had sent her flowers for V day as well...
So this year, I just bought a "happy VD card, daddy" that the girls can give him. I will also give my daughters a special treat and celebrate with them going out for ice cream or whatever they want.
Nothing from me to H.
Me & H: 44 D7, D6, S3 Together: 20y, M: 17y EA: 11/13/10, Sep: 12/23/10 EA becomes PA: Spring 2011 H filed for D: 09/06/12 D Negotiating began 2/15 OW seemingly gone on 3/15 Still negotiating D
