Husband wants out & has one foot out the door - P2

[purgatory]

(((RR)))

On your double date, make sure that you look great and act 'as if' nothing is bothering you. Let him be the one who is uncomfortable at the table- but seeing you so happy and talkative. This is also a great image to leave with your friends- so when they do find out about the stich, they will think your H is crazy to leave you because you're so much fun!!

My close friend- told me: "The only thing stronger than God's will, is the free will of man. When we aren't on the path that God has planned for us, God has to break our wills in order for His to take over."
I keep reminding myself of this every time I feel out of control and questioning everything around me. I've never been a 'churchy' person, but I've always been faithful- and I've learned to lean heavily on that faith right now- especially since it's seems that I have no control over anything in my life.

Don't ask about the trip. I think that his guilt will weigh heavily on him while he's gone. You can be the bigger person and show H that you have enough self-respect to not even waste your breath mentioning OW or him- they aren't worth the effort. (then you can come to the boards and vent it all out) Hey think of this: Maybe she's a gremlin and she will reveal her true self in Sin City!!