Hi SH,
This crap is so damn hard. I just want you to know that there is life after seperation/divorce.

There are beautiful and caring and amazing people. I have met several women since the bomb. Amazing, beautiful, caring, successful, passionate women.

I've not been on a date or been intimate but know that the opportunity for happiness will always be there.

I'm not saying give up. By all means, your family is worth fighting for. So continue the good fight.


"I love what we have, the good things, so much, it hurts so badly."

Don't despare... Good things come in different forms.

Stay strong my friend...


M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14
EA - July 2010
NC w/EA - Nov 2010
Piecing - Jan 2011
I ask for div - Jan 2012
Div papers filed - Mar 2012
I move out - July 2012
Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012