H is really testing me and I'm trying sooooo hard to keep my mouth shut.
H emailed a few minutes ago: Would you have a problem if I went to Mohegan Sun with some people next weekend? (a casino a couple of states away)
I took a few minutes and a deep breath, then replied "no".
He writes back "ok", but then sends another email "You hate that idea don’t you?".
I haven't responded back. Truth? Yes, I hate the idea. I don't know who he's going with, and I'm not going to ask. I don't know if OW is going (I saw he texted her a few days ago...they work together and see and talk to each other every day, so the text was outside of work hours). I don't know how much money he's going to spend. I don't know anything. And I know not to ask anything. It stinks. And I really wish we could go together.
I know I can only control my own actions and he's going to do whatever he wants anyway, whether it's at some casino or here. It still stinks.
So what am I supposed to say? "Sounds like fun. Have a great time!" ???
