if wife acknowledges the day won't it be a nice surprise because you have NO EXPECTATIONS? and if she doesn't.. you're no worse off.

hey! just noticed you're from WI. my MIL just moved there!

2 more sleeps until you see the kids! in the meantime.. it's nice you have plans to keep busy. take care

Me:38.. H:33.
Two beautiful kids S:6 D:3
M:8.. together for 11.
Bomb dropped:10/17/11
Separated:11/07/11